As I stood this week at a 30 m line at the supermarket checkout, behind me was a woman who is upset greatly. Your anger level abated not, other than some
vorließen Waiting. An elderly lady next to me looked at me kindly, laughing: "I choose rather to serenity . Later, I explained the 86jährige that looked loose 20 years younger, how much joy and humor helped her through hard times and of time. "I choose" - that expressed the elderly lady, what the modern research of the positive psychology only for some Time can prove: "Feelings are not uncontrollable as the weather " says Barbara Fredrickson, a leading scientist in Focus . "They do not even primarily on the circumstances, but on how we interpret it." Negative emotions everyone has. But if we take this as a feeling, we have a choice how we react to it.
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creating his own weather . The woman from the supermarket are fretting conjured from a small rain clouds (long line) up a big storm (bad mood). The older woman looked the other hand, the same Weather by Humor glasses: "The rain clouds little thing back there?" Presumably, the rain clouds broke already in conversation with me as we laughed and joked together so, so the day was overcast go further. It has in all areas of life, the choice of perspective - in job. Best example, fish merchants from Seattle, which developed from a hostile workplace a place with game, fun, and enjoy dealing with customers. In the same book "Fish!" is a very beautiful phrase: You always have the choice of how you want to do his job , even if you look at the work itself can not choose. The result: increased quality of life and business sales - a "win-win" situation for both sides as we say in the business-German.
Rain comes on - you will have your choice each day consciously New ...
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