The more I the concepts of the world reflect, the more I will be a recurrent principle for the happy life : the acceptance by the course of events, unforeseen situations, behaviors of others and before all, accept yourself.
whether the bus was ten minutes late, you made a mistake or
it just rains for days - if it does not work out as we imagine it, we react with anger, Anger or disappointment. The paradox of resist: It changes nothing - except that we are worse off (sometimes even days later). Tip: Whenever you notice any nascent opposition to something, you give up this and take the situation at . You will be amazed to notice how the conscious decision changed everything for another assessment. Serene people think " How come, come ," Humor said in full "is more serene " and believers rely on "trust in God . But even if you are not allowed, nor are full of humor, believing worth it is to practice acceptance.
Important: A accept the situation, does not mean resigning - quite the contrary . Just because you offer no resistance, for example, takes you on many nights over and over and constantly ask "why I took that so seriously ill?" You save your strength for therapy and healing.
" You can not stop the waves, but you can learn to surf . This wisdom goes beyond the acceptance and gives us a tip equal to the road. D
surf he can not harm you if you are on top. And for surfers you think somehow of fun and lightness. The secret is to change perspectives and see the blessing in disguise. Crisis as an opportunity. Use the search (unpleasant) situation to your advantage, eg job loss, an activity that still fits you better. © Text: Gluexkeks - picture "A quiet ball slide ..." pixelio.de of Grubi and "surfer boy" from Fish Feed / Inspired
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