In one of the last posts I mentioned the partnership's second biggest luck factor by friendship. As I did yesterday after a party on the high proportion of singles in Munich was thinking (28.8% according to Parship among 18-59 year old) and I just have a report on "divorce" fell into the hands, I knew: It's time for an article about love, fear of commitment and marriage happiness.
studies show: married couples are happier than singles and these are happier than divorcees and widows. "Does marriage get married happy or Happy?" - This question answered Zurich professors
of happiness economics, with a double Yes. to marry, the probability is higher for happy people. Also strengthens the bond of marriage, the pair bond. The happiest couples are the way just before the wedding until two years later. More about these long-term study of 2006 in an interview . For more information about the comparison between married couples and singles luck also offer the following studies . While the latter surveys the current state is documented, psychologists question the why. As evidence applies: In early childhood is the foundation for the relationship skills down. An intimate mother-child relationship and a loving cooperation of parents as role models are the best conditions for a young man himself later to a "secure binder" is. According to Bartholomew & Horowitz, there are four different types of bonds: safe binding, possessive, fearful and resistant. The "safe binders" are the ones more marry and lead lasting happy relationship.
Around the three non-secure attachment styles is what the book : Yes and No! - a reading that I can put all his heart, who wonder why they fall in love
always in or into the wrong / n or separate from a partner once the relationship is somewhat closer. The author speaks of "fear of commitment " and shows a way out for patients and partners of "anxious attachment", "Beziehungsvermeider" or "phobe" as they are still called. The fear of commitment is this not a phenomenon of our time, they have always existed - only has the social pressure for Dating Marriage and removed. So it is not surprising to encounter everywhere more or less happy short-term relationship Hopper and "convinced singles." ! fear of commitment or not, yes and no author and psychologist Stefanie Steel brings to light an interesting point: If you promised earlier today, we have now the choice. Besides the advantage of romantic love high time we face today a large "market the temptation" to. Is the first biologically determined love spells gone, it says quickly, " trieth drum you leap if not but what better place . And if we exchange these permanently happy, It's up to your imagination ...
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